WHY DO YOU ADOPT WHEN NOT READY TO ADAPT: A heart that never healed.

Hi everyone ..i began thos journey to share my life story..many are adapted and have been adapting . The fact i wanted to stress here is to tell someone out there to be careful in their choices.

Either give a life to that orphan and make that child your own with no reservations at all or let go of the idea of becoming a parent and just help many poor orphans to get a shelter and food and training to live on their own

Put the resources to use what our maker had given you to share it with these orphans and thus share our Saviour’s love too. So that one day those children you helped will in turn share our Heavenly Father’s love to others.

Regardless of how they TURNED UP TO THIS PLACE IN LIFE, YOUR JOB IS TO HELP THEM TURN OUT AS GREAT HUMAN BEINGS AND BEING AM EXAMPLE OF WHAT OUT CREATOR’S LOVE TO REFLECT IN THEM.

INSTEAD, SOME LIKE THE ONES I ENDED UP WITH TURNED INTO A NIGHTMARE INSTEAD . SINCE MY MOTHER ESPECIALLY COULDN’T adapt to the fact the child was her own now and has not taken somebody elses name but your families and is grown up to be your’s to love and to cherish and look at as your enemy or a person to be torn apart till the end forsaking joy in all entirety.